My house is my castle /jail

Parents watch TV set every day and mass media regularly informs us about the crimes, the death of children, juvenile delinquency, the problems with children health and many other terrible things that happen with children every day. Naturally, parents love their children and want to save them from the so cruel world full of danger. So they start to control all actions of their children even if they are teenagers already. In the result the sweet home turns into the awful jail for children and they escape from it. And sometimes the consequences may be even worse.

Children brought up in the atmosphere of total control are afraid of independence and responsibility and are very timid, weak, whining and delicate. Such children communicate with other children rarely and are incapable to live in the society. If you want your child to be like that, then make the total control.

But sometimes it is good to trust to your children. Of course it doesn't mean you mustn't control the child at all but give the child the possibility to make some decisions by itself and don't punish it too much if it didn't follow your order to come home at certain time. This was the first decision made by the child understanding the consequences of such decision. And this means the child becomes responsible and independent.

And if the child will know that parents always trust it, it will try not to disappoint parents. And the parents' house will always be the castle for it and not the jail with strict order.

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And despite all problems and despite all troubles humanity continues to live and to love their children. There are no creatures on our planet that would be able to take care of their children till oldness. And parents always love their children despite everything.

Children brought up in the atmosphere of total control are afraid of independence and responsibility and are very timid, weak, whining and delicate. Suchchildren communicate with other children rarely and are incapable to live in the society.

Every person must be ready for having a child and for being parent. The modern life demands even more care and attention to children because it isfilled with violence, lie, sufferings. And only parents are able to protect their children and to teach them how to survive in this world full of victims.

Adults are stronger and taller and have more knowledge. But children are more natural and sometimes even commit something so unusual and wise that even adults are surprised.

Today all children may be divided into two categories. The first category includes all children that sufferfrom the children of the same age. And the second category is made by children who really scuff at others including other children.


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